A backwards orbit is not chaos. It is bookkeeping. A planet that circles its star in retrograde motion on a steep tilt survives when the total angular momentum of the system is conserved and cleanly partitioned between star, planet and any distant companion.
The key is not direction but energy hierarchy. In a stable configuration, the planet’s orbital energy sits deep inside the star’s gravitational potential well, while perturbations from other bodies operate as slow, periodic nudges described by secular perturbation theory. Instead of ejecting the planet, those nudges can drive long‑cycle oscillations of inclination and eccentricity, a process known as the Kozai–Lidov mechanism, which trades tilt for elongation without breaking the orbit.
Retrograde motion can even be an advantage. Because the planet moves against the spin of the system, close encounters with other planets or a distant giant often average out, shrinking net gravitational kicks and reducing the chance of catastrophic resonance overlap. Once tides inside the planet and star begin to dissipate orbital energy as heat, tidal dissipation damps extreme eccentricity, locking the orbit into a long‑lived, misaligned but mechanically quiet state that can persist for billions of years.